Mentoring Has Its Benefits

By Gary Turner, Puget Sound Energy.

Looking at my life I can honestly say my life has been more successful and rewarding because of mentors.  Mentoring provides many benefits to both people - it’s not just about imparting knowledge from a senior person to the younger protégée.  Indeed, the person being mentored can also impart valuable insight and wisdom to the mentor as well. Have you experienced the benefits of mentoring?  Have you been a mentor to another? 

I have been fortunate to experience significant mentor relationships at critical points in my life. Different connections came about without me really seeking them out. Mentors that come to mind were: a neighbor, Don; a teacher, Mr. Cutler; my uncle, Bill; a coworker, Phil; and family friend, Archie – all unbelievably fortunate for me to have and beneficial to the point that my life’s direction was altered because of them!  Reflecting on these experience here are a few thoughts about effective mentor/mentee qualities. A great mentor: 

·         Maintains a balance between praise and criticism, both are key to understanding

·         Is a good listener and non-judgmental

·         Is sensitive to another person’s struggle communicating clearly/directly when appropriate and with sensitivity when emotions are raw

·         Is committed to the relationship willing to spend time together

·         Discusses goals and desired outcomes

·         Celebrates successes along the way

What I gained from my mentoring relationship was help making career decisions, increased technical knowledge, I met new people, I laughed a lot, developed as a person, increased my ability to trust others.  I believe that the mentoring experience was mutually beneficial to these dear people as well.  Thanks for being there friends…when I needed you the most.  Because of you, I pledge to pay the same mentoring experience forward to others.  My wish is to see the opportunities and go ahead and make the effort like others did for me.